Friday, March 25, 2011

Rightly Referring the Reference

I was asked to assist our HR / IR Department with a Management Training Workshop sort of something that they're currently hosting. The 'workshop' (and I use that term lightly) essentially comprises several 2 hour sessions with various groups of senior staff, based on a bestselling management book that our GM believes will revolutionize management systems within the company i suppose. The selected supervisors, managers et al were asked to read the book and prepare a report, which they were required to present at their scheduled session.

Now for the real point of this post. I am not going to criticize their presentation skills because I know all to well that it is not one that many possess; however I don't think it dawned on me before these sessions just how much I detest the phrase 'refer back'! *blank stare*

You would not believe how many times I heard that phrase in ONE session! "If you refer back...So we can refer back...refer back...refer back...refer back." Aaaaaaaahhh!!! And get this, I had two sessions that day, two sessions yesterday, and the two sessions carded for today...merged into one glorious, possibly 4-hour sitting of 'refer back'. If I go to jail, will you come visit me? No? Ah well...

Now my problem with this phrase, apart from the fact that 'it jes doh song nice,' is that it's one of those redundant things that people bandy about without concern or question! It falls, for me, in the same category as 'comprise of,' 'irregardless,' 'revert back,' 'reverse back' (*sings* doh back back on me, doh back back on me...err, sorry, I digress.) So you see my point...right? Yes? Please? Ok. 

Either way, I plead with you: please, please think about the Grammar (and the Grammar-conscious folks who may be present)  the next time you are tempted to 'refer back' to something. It would be greatly appreciated by the slightly OCD sticklers worldwide.

Referring back to you,
Stickler in Stilettos

8 comments:

  1. Here nah! of late the ones that have been getting to me are "more heavier" or "more easier" or how could i leave this one out "more better" hmmmmmmmmm i cringe even to type it. I remember having mentioned the "could of should of would of" bacteria that covered my fb news feeds (maybe you could of refer back to my profile to be more clear on what a'm talking about) heheheheeee couldn't help it :D

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  2. lol. Whatever. But yes, should 'of', would 'of' drives me mad too! gosh!

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  3. Well said! I just wanted to refer back to what was well said, but I would of had to click the link back and I don't want to reverse back from here. Ok, corny, I know.
    What I really wanted to say was - "you're good."
    Looking forward to more.

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  4. Hahahah! Charmaine I see you and Lin (and most of my other friends) like to play with me and my peeves lol. But no that wasn't corny, you have rollin' here.

    Thanks much, and I look forward to posting more! :)

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  5. Oh gosh I needed to proof this again before I posted! Ah well, to err is human...right?

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  6. This is well said and funny too!

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  7. Hey! Thanks Ruby Love and WizzytheStick! :)

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